вЂњIs it actually possible to find a boyfriend on Tinder?вЂќ
That might be the most popular question IвЂ™m asked when talking about online dating.
My answer, often surprises women. It is an unequivocal вЂњYes.вЂќ
I know. YouвЂ™ve been burned on Tinder by numerous guys looking for something casual, trying to message you for easy sex. ItвЂ™s not surprising you find my answer a little farfetched. But let me elaborate.
Tinder is a funny beast. It is the App that finally made online dating вЂacceptableвЂ™ for the last resistors in GenвЂ™s Y and Z. For that, it deserves credit.
Tinder as a platform has filled up with all sorts of people, but has now established its more ongoing reputation as a hook-up app. While, in some respects, this reputation is deserved, in others, women forget there are just as many good guys looking for a girlfriend (but clueless on how to meet one), who sign up to Tinder, as there are guys looking for a quick root.
The problem is, if you donвЂ™t know how to make Tinder work for you, and youвЂ™re after something serious, the rather large percentage of men on Tinder, who arenвЂ™t, will ruin it for you pretty quickly.
I should probably elaborate on my answer to the earlier question. вЂњIs it possible to meet a boyfriend on Tinder?вЂќ
While explaining the important concepts of online dating is beyond the scope of this article (IвЂ™ve done that here, anyway; give it a read if you havenвЂ™t already), I can give you 10 specific action steps that apply to Tinder.
These alone will vastly increase your chances of finding a good guy on this famous dating app. If you want to find a boyfriend on Tinder, make Tinder work for you. HereвЂ™s 10 secrets to doing just that.
1. DonвЂ™t have anyone else in your profile picture
A guy whoвЂ™s serious about looking for something on Tinder will want to get to know his matches. If he has to guess who you are from your photo, that isnвЂ™t a good start. [Read more…]